What use is it being angry about something if anger is just going to make it worse?
I just had one of those situations recently... and though it was hard at first, I found it easier when you put effort into making it good. Showing that you want to make an effort, changes the outcome.
Sounds like it.
Not always is.
But it's doable.
Just make an effort, it will help you feel more satisfied.
I know, I know.... you all probably knew this already. I just needed to write it for myself.